[Music] let’s start with the best piece of advice you have for people who are couple my best piece of advice probably would be I’ll have three sound things I’ve always said communication trust and respect are the three main foundations that the other person knows what it is that you want in life but they don’t so you have to give them that roadmap in the best way is to communicate all right I don’t know I mean a lot of people don’t give it the the end-all be-all you know kind of effort anymore these days I
feel like you know just I feel like social media plays such a huge part influencing people like oh don’t put up with that you know like if your man does this don’t put up that well those are strangers that are you know thousands of miles from you today I mean every relationships different so you can’t even when you’re giving advice to your friends like you you I don’t ever say you should do this I say this is what I did in that type of situation or like this is how we handle it in our
relationship because no two relationships never say well I can go well then I just I mean I you know the typical things you’re bogging here don’t rush into anything make sure it’s the right person but if you’re somebody who’s like divorced or you’ve been through several long relationships you’ve learned something with each relationship so people tend to say it kind of gets a little easier to know what you’re looking for and to spot what you’re looking for when you get into a
relationship you know after all those attempted tries you know and so sometimes if you do rush into it that’s that’s your call if you feel good enough about it a lot of people feel like don’t listen to their intuition they don’t and they don’t listen to their gut and I think that makes all the difference whenever you’re deciding who you want to spend not even necessarily the rest of your life with but who you want to give your time to because you’re only here for like a split second of all
eternity so giving your time to someone is fairly costly so I’m gonna make sure it’s with the right person so I have always stuck with it the whole personable um you know just Valentine’s Day I mean man there’s 365 days in the year and you’re supposed to as you can ask for life and worship love me and so literally when it comes to that one day I’m like no anything today so it’s just a person you know I’d literally don’t mind as far as I mean yes I would like the kids inevitably get out but when
it’s during the week just it’s something small that just makes me no cook dad or sex yeah a glass of wine let’s watch a movie and you know phones that you know yeah turn those along yeah that’s a big thing you’re gonna like should show up phones put your phone down turn your phone on is there’s a huge disconnect so just you know even though as cheesy as it sounds a blanket in the park you know yeah something where again it’s personable not so much yes yeah lot about it I’m horrible to ask cuz I’m not
all about gifts but if you wanted to give me anything I would say get me employment because those grow flowers die that hours adult life I up flowers at all flowers and plant chocolate like that and you have to nurture a plant nurture your relationship exactly well but you know what Valentine’s Day is about them too again it goes to your relationship but it’s about them too but I think men have like this Sigma you know that oh I’m supposed to do this this and this and maybe it just comes
across as like I gotta do all this just because it’s Valentine’s Day tell your man ahead of time feel like hey you know what Valentine’s Day that’s not good each other anything let’s do this instead you know think about it ahead don’t just expect your man to or or a woman to do you know whatever it is you think they’re gonna do like talk about it you say hey don’t mind me chocolates if you’re on a diet or something you know just like think of it ahead of time you
know think about your your person as well not just yourself so I don’t spent notice wait for you know Valentine’s Day to show the person that you care about them that’s true and it’s not do so much a couple thing like literally my kids I get them Valentine’s every year and it’s just you know my dad always said yeah you know when it’s just something you know all your parents all say hello legit that’s true family law my dad so my parents they Co parented very well
and my dad would always make a big deal out of Valentine’s Day and he was dried from you make like a 30-minute drive and come and drop off a Valentine’s Day card a little box of chocolate than a balloon and he put it on my car until I would see it before I walked out to school that morning and my mom like loved that about my dad like that he would make the point to do those things you know for me even though like it wasn’t his day or like he didn’t try to like come get me after school to inconvenience my mom or
something you know so that was always really nice it’s really nice when parents co-parent it helps your child tremendously or children tremendously like I can’t thank my parents enough for doing that so I have Valentine’s Day [Music]
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