Yesha and Desiree give Valentine’s Day advice

[Music] in y’all’s personal opinion what do you think is the best advice either you can get or that you’ve been given from people who are in a relationship so the best advice that I can give to couples it’s just to you know make sure that they are treating their significant other that way all year round because some people don’t take to just one day of showering them with stuff like me for instance I pay attention to how you are towards me throughout the whole year so that’s the best advice that I could give

my whole thing is and it’s overly done communicate communicate communicate everybody says that but nobody knows what it means in my opinion I’m a very logical thinker so for me it’s it’s one of those things where I have issues and if I don’t talk about my issues then they’re just gonna boil over until I blow up and that’s pretty much how it happens to me most important thing is make sure you come home and ask your guy or your girl how their day was what they’re feeling because when you have

that special connection with another person and if you share a bond and you share dinner together and you just ask each other how you’re doing how your day was how you’re feeling then maybe you can get bottom get to the bottom of it would say on Valentine’s Day you know for the couples that everything is going good and they want to celebrate Valentine’s Day I would say to just definitely make time for that date I mean you know even if you know he gets off at 9 and she gets off at 8 maybe

they can go to Denny’s or or a restaurant that’s open you know late to where they can celebrate and then if they can’t go out and celebrate then at least prepare a dinner but make sure y’all spend that day since it is Valentine’s Day make sure they you know spend that time together at least for a couple of hours over a meal just to celebrate it because it is a special day especially if you are with the one that you love on Valentine’s Day go find somebody I’m just kidding

Valentine’s is a thing would you say you know if Valentine’s Day is important to you and you are feeling bad that you don’t have anyone I would just say celebrate with yourself celebrate that you love yourself do something like go get a massage you know go meditate like at a meditating studio you know or something like that or take yourself out go get a haircut you know just do something groom yourself and take care of yourself take yourself out to dinner or take off the whole day at work and

just pamper yourself and just love yourself because I think many people forget about self-love and they’re you know so worried about they don’t have someone to love them but it’s like are you loving yourself so I would that’s the advice I would give to single single people I think galentine’s is the thing if you’re alone by alone I don’t you know I mean if you don’t have a significant other celebrate with the people that are around you and that do love you because

it is a holiday of love and if if you can just celebrate it with the people that you love just I mean there’s nothing wrong with having dinner with your girlfriends or your guy friends I mean or you know pamper yourself make yourself feel good because if you don’t love yourself you can’t love another person so love yourself so people buy flowers I like flowers so I definitely am down for that they get really expensive around that time so to me specifically if you just take me out to

eat for dinner that’s a gift to me I don’t need I don’t you know you’re spending money on me it’s a gift I don’t really need something but if you know you see it a lot that people buy chocolates or whatnot well I like chocolates I don’t really care for much so just get me some flowers and I’ll be happy look let’s say you know one valentine’s year you really didn’t have a lot of money to do therefore your significant other didn’t you you can already plan a year ahead

and say you know the following Valentine’s Day I want to do something more extravagant and I think surprising your significant other with something that they’ve never experienced with you would be nice and so if you can afford it I would say save up for something kind of more higher on that level as far as like getting a limousine and have champagne and the limousine and music in the limousine and then you can buy your husband or your boyfriend some shoes or like his favorite belt or something like

that a surprise them inside the limousine and that’s a lot of fun that’s on the higher end that’s on the higher you have to go fill in the Ziva’s yeah I’m gonna need someone to get me a limousine and if you have like all the attention on y’all hey everybody’s wish you know they think y’all are like movie stars you know yeah I’m just you know I’m going right back to that again on Valentine’s Day just make sure you’re treating your significant other with

love and respect through the whole year I mean you’re gonna have your arguments but you know just make sure you’re treating them with love and respect the whole year round because you know some people don’t take good to just get in chocolate and flowers on one day and then it’s like the next day her him go right back to their same old ways treating you like crap you know and it’s like you didn’t mean anything so I would just say just make sure you’re treating your significant other the same all the

year round I’m just loving them I do think all of that is true I do think that it’s good to have an a dedicated to this because a lot of times a lot of people we get into our usual routines you know you go to work you you come home you have dinner you know you may have like a little bit to talk about here and there and then you go to bed wake up and do it all over again so it’s good to have a day dedicated just to you know your significant other and and to tell them that you you actually do love

them you know because we not everybody you know unless you’re I knew and loved and you know not everybody says I love you every single day I’m not a guy right so you know it’s it’s good to have at least a day out there for people to express their love for the other person I think that’s big to actually say I love you on Valentine’s Day like actually we let that person know you know because throughout the week you you know you probably say it in text I love you or good night or good morning but I think

on Valentine’s Day the couples should both make it a necessary point to make sure they tell that person they do love them you know and make sure they make eye contact with that person you know [Music]

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